Understanding in Differences

Posted by : Ilham Nugraha Friday, April 19, 2013

We may have the different perspective about particular people, clubs, or even religions. We easily prejudice others as we know it deeply but we keep the wrong pattern of point of view toward it. That misbehavior could create conflict and gap among us. Furthermore, the trifling rumors outside are conveying irresponsible fact in life.

We like assuming and prejudicing like the concept of stereotype. We conclude certain people like what we heard from other people. We treat people like what we know about their behaviors from other people. We talk about them like what we listen from other people. We almost do these in our lives.

What you have done is not true at all. The understanding of certain people needs observation, communication, approach, interaction, and experience with them. We cannot get findings just by listening from others, copying from others, and repeating from others. We are near to the failure if we deny those things.

It is the same way to know about certain people with different backgrounds, pattern of education, environments, and religions. We need to be there to share, communicate, respect, feel, and contribute with them. We have to do those things to surely say and tell others that differences are not the obstacle to embody the mutual understanding between you and those you think about.